The onset of autumn always makes me think of my mother. She was possibly the only person I have ever met who disliked summer. I can’t recall seeing her on a beach after I was aged about eight. By that time, she used to pack me off in the company of older siblings to catch the bus to the beach. I am sure she thought a beach bunny was a lop-eared creature who lived in the sand dunes. Her lifestyle never encompassed hot chips on the sand, summer barbecues or sitting around under a sun umbrella with a cold drink in hand.
No. My mother was a Serious Gardener and the hot and dry of summer was a constant irritation to her as it inhibited her compulsion to rearrange the plants in her garden and divide her perennials. I think radio cricket commentaries used to be broadcast on the Concert Programme (maybe they still are) and the only time in my life that I can remember my mother using excessively strong language (the f word in fact) was apropos of summer cricket commentaries. I was so shocked I can still remember it many years on. I think the cricket became inextricably bound up with her boredom and frustration on summer afternoons.
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