
I do not miss our days of retailing plants. Nursery work was simply a means to earn a living and now that we are retired from all but gardening and final selections from Mark’s plant breeding programme, we are reaping the benefits of those long hours and quite a bit of hard work. Nothing reminds me more of that than red rhododendrons.
“You should take a photograph of ‘Kaponga’, my friend Pat said last week. And indeed it did look as splendid as a full truss, red rhododendron can, when viewed from her window. I didn’t have my camera with me at the time. I am old school – I prefer to use a camera rather than my phone. So I called back in this morning and it is already just past its peak.

‘Kaponga’ is a local selection of a red R. arboreum hybrid, bred and named by the late Bernie Hollard of Hollard Gardens fame. We like arboreums in our conditions because they don’t get hammered by thrips (turning the foliage silver) or die-back so the plant stays looking well furnished and healthy without needing spraying and special attention. ‘Kaponga’ was never my favourite; I do not love the big ball trusses on rhododendrons so favoured and admired by others. The looser trusses and flower forms of the maddenii group are more to my taste. ‘Kaponga’ is not a pure red like ‘Rubicon’, having a slight pink cast to its tone but it is an exceptional performer.


Overseas readers will know ‘Noyo Chief’ better than our local selections and, while an excellent plant which performs well every year, it too has that slight pink cast to its full red trusses.
Coming back to selling plants, every person who sells plants will know that any plant in bloom sells on sight. Never more so than red rhododendrons with full, ball trusses. Over the years, I realised that men bought red rhodos. Almost every time. When women bought them, it was often as a gift for their husbands. I should not have been as surprised by this gender-based colour preference – there are still men today who won’t have anything to do with pink, pastel apricot or paler lilac colours, regarding them as too ‘girly’ or feminine for real men. Maybe gardening men have broadened their tastes in the time since we dropped retail about 15 years ago? I hope so.

I am sure I must have told the story before (but not, I hope, recently) of the Tauranga landscaper who came in to buy plants for a new retirement village. He would only buy red, yellow or orange flowered plants, maybe blue – no whites, creams, pastels and certainly no pretty pinks because he, personally, didn’t like them. At the time, selling plants was more important than my view, but I really, really wanted to point out to him that his retirement village occupants were going to have a majority of women owing to the fact that women have a longer life expectancy. Besides, some men do like pretty flowers and rise above the constraints of old fashioned, masculine expectations when it comes to colour choices.
It must have scarred me because, to this day, I find it hard to rise above my disinterest in big red rhododendrons. I can still admire a good plant that performs well but they never make my heart sing or lift my spirits. Each to their own.










































